"The One You Ignore in Public"

Classic one-button vibe by Dame

R 950

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  • One button cycles 5 steady intensities
  • Works for pinpoint external play as well as shallow internal use
  • Whisper quiet, with a travel lock
  • Waterproof and charges over USB-C
  • Strong value next to luxury-priced rivals, with a 3-year warranty

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Description

“The One You Ignore in Public” is Dame's entry-level design and the one their own team recommends as a favourite. It has 288 reviews on Dame's site at 4.7 out of 5, with 96% of reviewers recommending it.

One button does everything: click to switch on, click through five steady intensities, click once more to switch off. It's about 15 cm long and 3 cm across in medical-grade silicone, with a tapered tip for the clitoris and a shape gentle enough to dip just inside. If you've never bought a vibrator before and it's the choosing that stops you, the simplicity is the whole point. Dame rates it whisper quiet.

Water-based lubricant. Waterproof. Two hours on USB-C gives an hour and a half at the highest setting, and a low-battery light tells you when to plug it in. Skip anal use, because there's no flared base. Dame covers it for three years.

Specifications
Brand
Dame
For
Me
Experience level
Beginner
Sensation
Clitoral , Vaginal
Material
Medical-Grade Silicone
Waterproof
Waterproof
Noise
Whisper quiet
Battery
USB-C rechargeable; battery life 1 hour; charge time 2 hours; lithium polymer battery
Warranty
3-Year Warranty
Settings
Steady vibration with 5 intensities; single button (press on/increase; 6th press or hold 3s off); travel mode via 10s hold
How to use
  1. Charge fully over USB-C before first use
  2. Click the button to step through the 5 intensities
  3. Use the ridge to explore the vulva and the bulb for broad contact
  4. Dip the tip shallowly inside when you want gentle internal feel
  5. Stick to water-based lube
  6. Skip anal use; there is no flared base
  7. For travel lock, hold the power button 10 seconds; plug it in to charge and the lock releases
  8. Clean with soap and water; no boiling and no harsh solvents
Shipping & returns

Your order will be shipped in a plain, unbranded package that will just have "Heather's" as sender.

Unopened items follow the usual returns window.

Safety Information & Downloads

What Independent Reviewers Say

A summary of published reviews from around the web. These are not Heather's customer reviews.

Highly rated by independent reviewers

Best for A first vibrator that covers external play and shallow internal use without a confusing interface

Pros

  • One button cycles 5 steady intensities
  • Works for pinpoint external play as well as shallow internal use
  • Whisper quiet, with a travel lock
  • Waterproof and charges over USB-C
  • Strong value next to luxury-priced rivals, with a 3-year warranty

Cons

  • No vibration patterns, only steady levels
  • The short grip divides opinion
  • Power users will want something stronger
  • Runtime on high is around an hour to an hour and a half

Sources: Dame (brand), Dame (user manual), Bedbible, Glamour