Our Range of Strap-On-Me Harnesses
Two Strap-On-Me harnesses are live here, and the difference between them is the material sitting against your skin.
Lingerie fabric harnesses
Cut like a piece of underwear, so it sits close to the body and spreads the pressure across your hips. The brand uses fine fabrics such as lace, tulle and microfibre on this style, and it's soft enough to keep on under clothes for a while before anything else happens. Comfort over a longer stretch is usually why women reach for this one.
Faux leather harnesses
A structured harness with a faux leather finish and straps that fasten at the waist and around each leg. It holds its shape when things get more energetic, and because the straps adjust you can set the fit once and tighten it again later.
Dildos to pair with a harness
The harness holds the dildo, so that part is chosen separately. Look for a wide flat base that can't pull through the ring, and check the base against the ring size before you order. Water-based lubricant is the pairing to use, since silicone lube can degrade silicone.Browse dildos.
- Style: Lingerie fabric. How it wears: Soft, close to the body. Worth a look when: You want it comfortable under clothes.
- Style: Faux leather. How it wears: Structured, straps that buckle. Worth a look when: You want a firmer hold.
Both sit in the widerharness and strap-ons collection, and there's another harness label stocked here inlux fetish.
Strap-On-Me FAQs
What comes up most before a first harness from this brand.
What is Strap-On-Me?
A French brand that's been making harnesses, dildos and strap-ons since 2018.
The design is deliberately minimalist, borrowed from fashion, and the range is built around sharing, whatever your gender or orientation. The brand also says its pieces work solo, which is a fair way to learn what you like before anyone else is involved. Its harness design won a Red Dot Award in 2019. For its own toys the brand names medical-grade silicone that's free of phthalates and latex, and it makes harnesses in lingerie fabric or faux leather. What's live at Heather's is the harness side of that.
How do you use a Strap-On-Me harness?
Fit the dildo through the front ring, then adjust the straps until nothing shifts.
- Wash the dildo before first use and after every use, then dry it fully.
- Push the base through the ring from behind so it sits flat against the front panel.
- Step into the harness and tighten the straps evenly. The brand's own guidance is stability without compressing the body, with the dildo staying aligned so you keep control of the angle.
- Use plenty of water-based lubricant and top it up as you go.
- Start slowly and say what's working. Wearing one changes what you can feel, and getting the movement to come from your hips takes a little practice.
- Afterwards, clean the fabric or faux leather with a product meant for it, leave it to air dry and store it somewhere clean and dry.
The brand treats harness care like caring for fine lingerie, and it warns off alcohol and abrasive cleaners on the silicone parts.How to clean and store your toyscovers the rest.
Are Strap-On-Me harnesses made to be worn?
Yes. A harness is worn on the body like a belt, and the ring at the front is what holds the dildo.
Straps sit around your hips and thighs so the dildo stays where you put it and your hands are free, with the movement coming from your hips. The brand designs for all bodies and all levels of experience, and either partner can be the one wearing it, in any pairing. It says its harnesses take any dildo in its own range, so when you're pairing one with a dildo from elsewhere in the shop, check the ring against the base on the product page.
