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Dame

Dame makes vibrators and intimate essentials designed by women, and you can buy the brand in South Africa here.

Dame was started in 2014 by sexologist Alexandra Fine and MIT engineer Janet Lieberman, and the brand sums itself up as "By Women, For Women". The design stays quiet and simple, with medical-grade silicone named on Dame's own site, so nothing here needs a manual before you use it. The set at Heather's is compact: external vibrators alongside intimate creams, an oil, a lube and a balm.

Get Dame without placing an overseas order. Buy it at Heather's and it ships anywhere in South Africa.

"The Older One"

Full-size wand

R 3,899

Dame Thro - Sage

Waterproof blanket

R 1,625

Dame Sex Oil | 60 ml

Plant-based sex oil

R 850

Dame Arousal Cream | 30ml

Tingling arousal cream

R 975

External rating 4.3/5

Dame Aloe Lube | 118 ml

Aloe water-based lube

R 650

External rating 4.5/5

"The Poppie"

Three-speed bullet

R 799

"Legs Up to the Ceiling"

Hands-free wearable

R 3,350

"The One You Ignore in Public"

Classic one-button vibe

R 950

"The One That Makes You Feel It"

Ridged-bulb G-spot vibe

R 3,675

Out of stock

Sold out

"Trip of Your Life"

Soft clitoral vibrator

R 3,025

Sold out

Dame | Play Balm - 60ml

Intimate moisturising balm

R 425

Sold out

"The One You Call on the Weekend"

Clitoral air-pulse

R 2,925

Our Range of Dame Products

The Dame set at Heather's is small on purpose, and it splits into two groups: what you hold against you and what goes on your skin.

Clitoral and external vibrators

These work on the outside, against the clitoris or the area around it. Dame keeps the shapes rounded and hand-sized, with a button or two doing all the work, and the brand develops and engineers its products in-house with a user research community testing them first. Medical-grade silicone is the material Dame names on its own site. To see how these sit next to the rest of the external range, theclitoral vibrators collectionlines the shapes up, andvibratorscovers the wider set.

Intimate creams, oil, lube and balm

The rest of the Dame range goes on the skin: intimate creams, an oil, a lubricant and a balm. They're used on their own or alongside a toy, and they're the part of a routine you reach for most often. Water-based lubricant is the one to use with silicone toys, because silicone lube can degrade silicone. Wash a toy before the first use and after every use, then dry it fully. The wider selection sits inlubricants and essentialsandwellness.

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Dame FAQs

What women ask most before their first Dame buy.

Who is the CEO of Dame products?

Alexandra Fine, who co-founded the brand.

She's a sexologist, and she started Dame in 2014 with MIT engineer Janet Lieberman. Dame's own site lists her as co-founder and CEO.

Where can I buy Dame Products?

In South Africa, right here at Heather's.

Everything Dame that Heather's stocks is on this page: external vibrators plus the creams, oil, lube and balm. You order online and it ships from within South Africa, so there's no international order to place and no parcel to wait on from abroad.

Where are dame products located?

Dame is based in Brooklyn, New York.

The company lists its address as 101 North 10th Street, Suite 308, Brooklyn, NY 11249, and it develops and engineers its products in-house. Your order ships from Heather's stock in South Africa.

Ordering and Delivery

We ship anywhere in South Africa. Orders are processed in 1-2 business days. Most arrive in 3-7 business days, and remote or peak orders can take up to 10 business days.

Every order goes in a plain unmarked box or courier bag. Nothing on the outside names what's inside. The waybill shows Heather's as the sender. Standard shipping is R99 , and orders over R1800 ship free. We email tracking once the parcel ships.

Get your order without anyone else knowing what's in the box. Order online today and get free delivery on orders over R1800.