Couples

Our Range of Couples Toys

The couples range is deliberately small, so the useful question is where you want the toy to sit while the two of you are together.

Wearable C-shape and panty vibrators

These are worn instead of held. A C-shape sits externally and internally at the same time; a panty vibrator tucks into underwear and stays there. Both suit couples who want something in play during sex without either of you having to keep hold of it, and both work just as well worn on your own.Browse C-shape and panty vibrators.

Shared G-spot shapes

Curved internal shapes that one of you uses on the other, or that you swap back and forth. The handle matters more than usual when someone else is holding the toy, because a firm grip makes the angle easier to control and easier to adjust when you say so.Browse G-spot vibrators.

Creams and balms

Lubricant, massage balms and warming creams, for slower play or as a way to start the evening. Stay with a water-based lubricant if a silicone toy is involved, since silicone lube can degrade silicone.Browse lubricants and essentials, andLubricant 101explains which base goes with what.

App-based toys for two

Some of these pair with a phone, which moves the controls off the toy and into someone's hand. One of you sets the pace while the other feels what gets chosen, in the same room or from another city.Browse app-based toys.

• Type: Wearable C-shape or panty. Where it's felt: External, or external and internal together. Who holds it: Nobody, it stays put.
• Type: Shared G-spot shape. Where it's felt: Internal. Who holds it: Either of you.
• Type: Cream or balm. Where it's felt: On the skin. Who holds it: Whoever's hands are free.
• Type: App-based. Where it's felt: Depends on the shape. Who holds it: Phone does the steering.

Body-safe material is the shop standard across all four, andbody-safe materials explainedcovers what to look for on a label.

Couples Toy FAQs

The questions that come up most before a first toy you'll be using with someone else.

What are couples sex toys?

Toys designed to be used by two people at once, or handed between you, instead of being held by one person for the whole evening.

In practice it's a shape question. Wearables stay in place during sex, so nobody has to hold anything. Shared internal shapes are used by a partner on you, with you saying how and where. App-based toys put the controls on a phone so one of you steers. Creams and balms sit around all of it. Nothing on this page needs a second person to be worth owning, which is why most of it carries over to solo use.

Can you use a vibrator with a partner?

Yes. Any vibrator can be part of sex with someone else, and plenty of women use one that way.

• Say what you want before you start, then keep adjusting out loud as you go.
• Begin on a low setting. Turning it up is easy, and it saves you backing out of something too strong.
• Use lubricant, water-based if there's silicone involved.
• Wearables and small external shapes are the simplest to include during sex, because they stay where you put them.
• Wash the toy before and after, and dry it fully.

If a toy is going between partners or between different kinds of play, a condom over it plus a proper wash in between keeps it straightforward.How to clean and store your toyshas the routine.

Are couples toys only for partnered play?

No. Plenty of these work solo too.

A wearable is still a wearable on your own, a shared G-spot shape is still a G-spot shape and app control works the same when the phone is in your own hand. Buying from this page doesn't commit you to using it with anyone, and if you're weighing the two, pick the shape you'd reach for on an ordinary evening and let partnered use be the extra.