"The Gentleman"

Lelo calls this one its pick for more experienced users, and the measurements say why: 37 mm across at the widest point, 11 cm of insertable length, and 128 grams of weight behind a curve shaped for the G-spot.

"The Gentleman" is thicker than most first toys, so start somewhere narrower if internal vibrators are new to you. If you already know you like fullness along with pressure, the matte silicone and the firm curve give you something to push against rather than around. Six patterns run off a four-button panel, and Lelo rates the motor under 50 decibels, which is quiet for the size.

Two hours of charging gives you about two hours of use. It's fully waterproof, so the bath is fine, and holding the plus and minus buttons together for five seconds locks it for travel. Water-based lubricant with the silicone. Lelo warrants it for two years.