"The Chef"

Smooth silicone, a steady curve and a base shaped like a heart: "The Chef" is built for going slowly, and the ring in that base gives you something to keep hold of the whole way.

Width matters more than length with anal play. At 3.6 cm across, "The Chef" sits in the moderate range rather than the smallest place to start, and the 17.7 cm total means a good part of it stays in your hand. The curve follows your body instead of pushing straight up, so you can angle the pressure where you want it. It is waterproof too, if the bath is where you feel most relaxed.

Use far more water-based lubricant than feels necessary and take your time. One honest note: there is no motor in "The Chef", so pressure and pace are entirely yours. The measurements also come from the retailer rather than Adrien Lastic, so read them as close rather than exact.