{"title":"Harness \u0026 Strap Ons","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eA strap-on is two pieces: a harness worn on your hips and a dildo held in the O-ring at the front.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSome harnesses here are sold empty so you pick the dildo yourself. Others arrive as a set with one included. Straps adjust at the waist and around each leg, which is what keeps the front panel steady once you're moving, and the O-ring decides which dildo bases will fit.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eGet a harness that sits where you put it and stays comfortable while you wear it. Order online for adjustable straps and body-safe materials that wash clean in seconds.\u003c\/p\u003e","products":[{"product_id":"pegging-kit","title":"\"THE Pegging Kit\"","description":"\u003cp\u003eROMP packs \"THE Pegging Kit\" with a non-realistic silicone dildo and a fully adjustable harness, so you can try strap-on play without assembling pieces from three different brands.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf pegging is new to you, the curved shaft (about five inches insertable, roughly one inch across) is a manageable place to start. The flared base and harness keep things secure, and the hollow base can take a ROMP Riot bullet later if you want vibration. The silicone feels smooth rather than skin-textured, which many people find less intimidating on a first try.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eUse plenty of water-based lubricant, never silicone-based. Wash the dildo with mild soap and water before and after play, and check the harness fit so nothing pinches. Store both pieces clean and dry.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Romp","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43923526352962,"sku":"4251460623568","price":999.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0684\/7571\/5650\/files\/4251460623568-img-09.jpg?v=1786395834"},{"product_id":"strap-on-me-desirous-harness","title":"Strap-On-Me | Desirous Harness","description":"\u003cp\u003eFaux leather changes the mood. The Desirous Harness is cut from 95% PU faux leather in a bare-back style, so the straps frame your hips and leave your back open. It comes in one size that adjusts from XS to XXL, taking hips of roughly 86 to 137 cm and legs of about 36 to 94 cm. A padded belt across the back stops the pressure landing in one spot.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThree interchangeable rings come with it, at 4.5, 5.5 and 6.5 cm across, so you can swap the front to suit the dildo you want instead of hunting for one that fits. Strap-On-Me has built the Desirous Harness to be tightened at the waist and both thighs, which is what keeps it steady while you move.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSet aside ten minutes the first time. One size fits all means a lot of small adjustments before it sits right, and no dildo comes in the box.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Strap-On-Me","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44043164254274,"sku":"3700436016060","price":1299.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0684\/7571\/5650\/files\/3700436016060.jpg?v=1784036634"},{"product_id":"steamy-shades-classic-harness","title":"Steamy Shades | Classic Harness","description":"\u003cp\u003eLace instead of leather. The Steamy Shades Classic Harness is cut from sheer black polyester lace with a cushioned front panel, and the straps and buckles adjust, so you can wear it against bare skin or under a skirt for as long as you like.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eTwo O-rings come with it, which means you can match the ring to a flat-based dildo you already own instead of being stuck with one width. Behind the front panel there is a small pocket for a bullet, so you get vibration against your own clitoris while you are the one wearing it. Most harnesses leave that part out.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eCheck the box contents before you order. Neither the dildo nor the bullet is included, and the size range is not published anywhere, so try the straps on the day it arrives rather than the night you want it.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Steamy Shades","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44043380293698,"sku":"4041937579302","price":1499.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0684\/7571\/5650\/files\/4041937579302-img-02.jpg?v=1785742853"},{"product_id":"steamy-shades-harness-gift-set","title":"\"The Supermodel\"","description":"\u003cp\u003e\"The Supermodel\" is the Steamy Shades harness gift set: elegant black lace over shiny grey fabric, cut for couples who want a beginner-friendly way into strap-on or sensory play. Three rings in the set accept different dildo sizes, so you can start modest and change girth later without buying a new harness.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you have talked about trying this together and want one kit that looks considered rather than clinical, this set holds that middle ground. The lace sits softly on the hips; the structure underneath keeps the ring steady once you move.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eChoose a ring that matches your toy's neck, settle the harness, and add plenty of water-based lubricant. Go slowly, check in with each other, and wash fabric and rings separately after. Air-dry fully before the next evening.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Steamy Shades","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44043388518466,"sku":"4041937579401","price":1950.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0684\/7571\/5650\/files\/4041937579401-img-02.jpg?v=1785742860"},{"product_id":"lux-fetish-leather-strap-on-harness-black","title":"THE Harness","description":"\u003cp\u003eLux Fetish builds \"THE Harness\" from faux leather, a PU material rather than animal hide, and it adjusts in four places so the fit is actually yours. Hips up to roughly 165 cm are covered, which is a wider range than most harnesses bother with.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe front takes a metal O-ring, so the dildo you already own sits secure and does not shift about while you move. Straps that pull in four directions matter more than they sound: a harness that slips is the main reason women give up on wearing one. A satin blindfold is in the box too, if you like the idea of taking one sense out of the room.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eOne thing to plan for. No dildo is included with \"THE Harness\", so choose one with a base wide enough to stay behind the ring.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Lux Fetish","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44043628838978,"sku":"4890808062098","price":1950.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0684\/7571\/5650\/files\/4890808062098-img-01.jpg?v=1785742540"},{"product_id":"lux-fetish-pretty-in-pink-strap-on","title":"\"Gangster Ballerina\"","description":"\u003cp\u003eNeoprene is the reason to choose \"Gangster Ballerina\" over a leather-look harness. It is soft against bare skin, it gives a little where you need it to and it does not dig into your hip after twenty minutes. The straps take hips up to about 165 cm.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe ring and fittings are POM, a hard-wearing plastic that keeps the weight down, so the whole harness sits lighter on you than the metal and leather kind. That counts for a lot when you are the one wearing it and doing the moving. A blindfold comes along with it, ready for whichever of you wants to wear that instead.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eDo bear in mind there is no dildo in the box, so you will want one with a flared base that fits the front ring.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Lux Fetish","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44043637162050,"sku":"4890808062166","price":1199.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0684\/7571\/5650\/files\/4890808062166.jpg?v=1784036966"},{"product_id":"lux-fetish-unisex-vibrating-hollow-double-strap-on","title":"\"The Hardcore One\"","description":"\u003cp\u003e\"The Hardcore One\" is a unisex hollow strap-on from Lux Fetish with a second smaller shaft for simultaneous anal penetration and seven vibration settings.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you want double penetration from one wearer, or a hollow shaft that can sit over the penis, the stretch elastic waistband adjusts across most bodies and the phthalate-free PVC keeps the shape firm during thrusting. One size means fit depends on your build, so take a moment to settle the band before you start.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eLoad two AAA batteries (not included). Fit the hollow shaft over the penis, or wear it as a standard strap-on, then adjust the waistband until both shafts stay put. Use plenty of water-based lubricant on both shafts, and wash the toy after use before you store it dry.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Lux Fetish","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44043654135874,"sku":"4890808210925","price":2275.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0684\/7571\/5650\/files\/4890808210925.jpg?v=1784036983"},{"product_id":"lux-fetish-unisex-vibrating-hollow-strap-on","title":"\"Send Your Location\"","description":"\u003cp\u003eLux Fetish shapes \"Send Your Location\" as a hollow, curved shaft in phthalate-free PVC with a stretch nylon harness and a wired remote offering seven vibration modes. It runs on two AAA batteries (not included).\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you want to try strap-on play with a firmer feel, or add length over a penis, the hollow core works either way. The insertable length is about 15 cm with a gentle curve toward the G-spot or P-spot, and the elastic waistband is one-size for most bodies once you settle it on the hips.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSlide the harness on, check that the shaft sits where you want it, then start on a lower vibration setting. Use plenty of water-based or hybrid lubricant on the PVC. After play, wipe the shaft with warm soapy water or toy cleaner, rinse if the design allows, dry fully, and store the harness flat so the elastic keeps its shape.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Lux Fetish","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44043654201410,"sku":"4890808210932","price":2199.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0684\/7571\/5650\/files\/4890808210932.jpg?v=1784036986"},{"product_id":"lovehoney-happy-rabbit-vibrating-strap-on-harness-set-purple","title":"\"The One Who's Been to Vegas\"","description":"\u003cp\u003e\"The One Who's Been to Vegas\" comes as two pieces: an adjustable harness and a vibrating Happy Rabbit shaft that clicks into the front of it. Wear the harness when you feel like being the one doing the moving, or leave it in the drawer and use the shaft on its own.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe shaft has 15 functions across the tip and the clitoral ears, so it still vibrates once it is in the harness. The straps go up to a 170.2 cm waist and three O-rings come in the box, which means your other dildos will fit the harness too. The shaft is 12.7 cm insertable, 17.8 cm long and 10.2 cm around. It goes underwater with you, charges by USB and has a travel lock.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA harness always takes a session or two to fit properly, and at 10.2 cm the shaft is on the slim side if you are used to thicker.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Lovehoney","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44043754242114,"sku":"5060020009426","price":2099.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0684\/7571\/5650\/files\/5060020009426.jpg?v=1784038592"},{"product_id":"lovehoney-happy-rabbit-strapless-strap-on-rabbit-vibe-pink","title":"\"The Groupie\"","description":"\u003cp\u003eLovehoney's Happy Rabbit line shapes \"The Groupie\" as a strapless strap-on: a shorter internal pony for the wearer, rabbit ears aimed at the clitoris, and a contoured shaft for a partner.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you are curious about strapless play on a budget, the velvety waterproof silicone and tapered tip make insertion easier, with 15 modes across shaft and ears. Many bodies still prefer a harness for security, so keep one nearby if the pony tends to slip.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eApply water-based lubricant to both ends. The wearer inserts the shorter end and angles the ears toward the clitoris, then cycles the 12 shaft settings and 3 ear speeds. Charge about 150 minutes for up to 120 minutes of play. Wash with warm water and mild soap after; water-based lubricant only.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Lovehoney","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44043762466882,"sku":"5060020009433","price":1575.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0684\/7571\/5650\/files\/5060020009433.jpg?v=1784038595"},{"product_id":"lovense-strapless-harness-for-lapis","title":"\"THE Harness\"","description":"\u003cp\u003e\"THE Harness\" is the quiet enabler of your toy drawer. Made from soft nylon and spandex, it is a strapless harness built to keep a strapless toy steady so you can move with your partner instead of managing your kit. The waist straps adjust from roughly 74 cm to 123 cm and the leg straps from about 28 cm to 42 cm, so it sits well on a range of hips and thighs.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe O-ring measures around 4 cm to 5 cm, which means it has room for a strapless double-ended toy and welcomes plenty of other dildos too. Lovense customers rate it 5 out of 5 from a small review set, and there is no charging, no buttons and no app to think about.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWorth knowing: on its own it does nothing at all. 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The barely-there fabric sits close to the skin and stays wearable for longer sessions when you pick a lighter dildo.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eCheck the brand size guide and pick Small, Medium, or Large for a snug fit; many go a size below their usual. Pull it on, seat the dildo through the central ring or inner pocket, then tighten the under-butt straps until the base feels stable. Wash gently and store dry. It is not made for the brand's motorised strap-ons.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Strap-On-Me","offers":[{"title":"Medium","offer_id":44715398168642,"sku":"3700436015940","price":1350.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":true},{"title":"Small","offer_id":44715398201410,"sku":"3700436015933","price":1350.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":true},{"title":"Large","offer_id":44715398234178,"sku":"3700436015957","price":2175.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0684\/7571\/5650\/files\/3700436015957.jpg?v=1784036628"}],"url":"https:\/\/heathers.co.za\/collections\/harness-strap-ons.oembed","provider":"Heather's","version":"1.0","type":"link"}